Christmas Town

I know I know it's spring and no it's not July so why are we in Christmas town and how did Ash and I end up there? Well perhaps I never mentioned this before but Ash is a J.A.P. (Jewish American Princess). Now what the hell has that to do with Christmas town? Why aren't we in Hanukkah land?

Well one of Ash's guilty pleasures is Christmas yes I said it a Jewish girl loves Christmas :) lol well can you blame her? I think we Christians can take Christmas for granted because we are used to the glits, glamour, and magic of Christmas time and are perhaps jaded from Christmas shopping.


Hanging out with Ash at Christmas town seeing her enjoy the Christmas decorations just reminded me of when I used to LOVE Christmas. Lol now I'm a grumpy holiday shopper but Ash reminded me of the magic of Christmas, the beauty of decorations, the family traditions and especially the Christmas music. Songs that I'm so used to singing every Christmas are new and wonderful to her :)


Lol it looks like I'm molesting frosty ;p Lol anyway as you can see in SL there's a place for anyone! You want snow there are plenty of places for snow you want holiday decorations there are tons of places to find them. Thus I announce the establishment of Hanumas! The holiday that combines Christmas and Hanukkah so that a Jewish girl can have her first SL Christmas on what day? of course May 25th. Why? because it's SL and if you can think it you can probably do it :)

To each their own!

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Gorgeous Ash

Beauty is not only on the outside it is also within. Yes on SL everyone can choose to be a hot model prototype. But you have to remember there's a real person behind that avatar and their personality is not hidden in fact it is revealed more.

Ashlynn is one of those people that are as lovely on the outside as within. She is a sweetheart, kind, warm, and fun loving. I am lucky to be counted as one of her friends :) This pic above was what she wore to the event at Bubbly which I think was Victorian era or 18th century.


Lol even Ash knew how sad I was that Elle was gone so she was trying her best to cheer me up. Here she is being a snake charmer honestly only in SL can you go from princess to snake charmer in one night :)


Hanging out at Ash's house we had the idea of Charlie's angels but sadly we were missing an important angel :( hopefully she will come online for a visit soon especially if I can find some Charlie's angels pose balls ;)


Ash was simply amazing that day taking me to an SL synagogue. I've been to rl ones before but the SL one was comforting as well in it's own unique SL way. We meditated a bit and I looked forward to the days to come always crossing my fingers that Elle will stop by for a visit :)

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Elle Leaving :*(

Okay, this is one of the hardest posts I've had to write I still tear up thinking about it :*(

I think at some point in everyone's SL life you realize that SL is not an utopia. There are real emotions behind avatars and people can get hurt, frustrated, fed up, or bored with SL. We all go through a period of listlessness wondering what are we doing in SL? For what purpose do we keep playing?

Well unfortunately my Elle was not happy in SL :( So unhappy that she decided to leave forever and stop playing. I was heartbroken so heartbroken I cried in RL that whole day after she left :*(

I didn't want her to go but she was unhappy and if a game is making you unhappy then I can't be selfish and make her keep playing :(


The next day after the tears dried I was still down I missed her so much! She was and is my BFF. I didn't realize what a big part of my SL life she was until she was gone :*( and it was like an empty void opened in my life that only she could fill.

I didn't do much that day as you can see in the pic I was having my little SL pity party alone in my apartment thinking about Elle and what went wrong what made her so unhappy :(

Alright so I sorta already knew what made her unhappy and well though I can't go into details I can say that like in RL there are a lot of jerks on SL. We've all been hurt and frustrated by jerks and I'm using the word nicely! But too many jerks passed the path of my Elle and she had enough :(

I'm reminded of a song when I think about all this it's from the movie version of Much Ado About Nothing. It's ironically comforting that even in Shakespeare's time men were ass holes and called out about it lol. But in the end you have to forget the jerks and move on :) Hopefully if Elle ever comes back jerks will stop crossing her path :) But SL is random and who knows? Oh I'm not leaving the ladies out either there are some bitches out there you know who you are grrrrrr.

Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more,
Men were deceivers ever,
One foot in sea and one on shore,
To one thing constant never:

Then sigh not so, but let them go,
And be you blithe and bonny,
Converting all your sounds of woe
Into Hey nonny, nonny.

Sing no more ditties, sing no more,
Of dumps so dull and heavy;
The fraud of men was ever so,
Since summer first was leafy:

Then sigh not so, but let them go,
And be you blithe and bonny,
Converting all your sounds of woe
Into Hey nonny, nonny.

William Shakespeare, Much Ado About Nothing, Act II, Scene III

I have to admit that I listen to that song over and over again. The words are very true.


Kale finally came online and I had to cry on his shoulder again :*(

He knows how much Elle means to me and was being very sweet so I cheered up a bit :)

I keep in contact with Elle through email so it's not like she is gone forever but I am very hopeful that after a break she will come back again because as she says SL is crack ;p

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Bachelorette Goodies

Okay I've mentioned before that I am maid of honor MOH for short ;p lol. So what is the most important duty of a moh you ask? Well the bachelorette party of course! But this is SL how do you throw a party on such short notice? Are there even party supplies that are transferable?

Well I was lucky enough to find a place with some nice goodies lol but before I reveal them I'm gonna have to card everyone ;p make sure you are old enough to see these naughty goodies...


Lol you better be clicking the pic to get a close up of these goodies ;p

Now the big question of the day: will the bride like them or are they too raunchy? Well these are ideas the final decision of course is up to Ash ;)

I'm not that familiar with party planning on SL I don't even have a guest list? Lol so the bride, Ash, really has to be involved in decorations and stuff especially since it will be at her house and she is the only one with permissions to decorate there. Sigh I wish my place was big enough for parties but where ever the party will be I know it's gonna be tons of fun!!!

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Romace ;)

When I entered Second Life I saw it as a game, an escape from reality, and a social experiment. I wasn't looking for love but friendship :) But RL spills over into SL and I found myself casually going out with guys. I've always gotten along well with guys because I keep it casual and I'm used to being one of the guys. But then cupids arrow hit...

one of my suitors. He was sweet and kind and I went along with it I did love him but I think it was more sympathetic since he opened up to me and told me of his painful past. I related to his pain and enjoyed our conversations but cupid didn't hit me. I became his girlfriend but I never felt right about it because well I didn't really understand our relationship. He would encourage me to see other people, bought me gifts and wanted me to be available when he was available which was confusing since he would be online for long periods of time and only talked to me late at night. He would also be invisible to me until he wanted to see me which never sat right with me.

Anyway so I saw other people one of them being the guy in the first picture :) His name is Kale Panthar. I met him in Neva Naughty Furniture Store lol don't judge me I was looking at pianos ;)

Lol he immed me and that day I was kinda jaded by SL being harassed by three jerks at Henmation's dance store. But something told me to take a chance so I answered back "where are you?" Lol romantic I know ;p Honestly I was staring at pianos so I didn't see where he was and well I don't like talking to new people if I can't see them :) so we found each other and talked :) He then invited me to the beach his secret spot for relaxation. Kale was sweet there was an immediate connection between us and as the days passed and we got to know each other better...


Lol he's wearing shorts! I swear!!! ;p

Anyway I began to want to see Kale more and more and more :) Cupid's arrow finally hit me and I knew what I had to do :( The day that Kale made us official I broke it off with current boyfriend. Kale was the only one I wanted to see I didn't need or want anyone else. The breakup well was not pleasant those who were there for support know the story I don't have to repeat it. And if you want to know no we are not friends have not spoken nor heard of him since breakup.

So Kale and I became official :) I was a happy girl because Kale was a missing piece in my life and before I realized it I just naturally told him I loved him and he said it back :)

Today we are happy together :) I love him and he loves me :) And boy does he spoil me :D I am totally not complaining :D I love how he goes out of his way to surprise me with gifts and romantic spots for dates :)


We could sit and and just chat for hours :) I know I know some of you are withholding your gag reflex but it's the truth. When I wasn't looking for it I found love :)


And what an added bonus that Elle approves of him ;) lol I love it that he takes interest in my friends and get's to know them.


Here we are looking at Elle's claim to SL fame :) doesn't she look gorgeous in the champagne glass ;) sexy!!! Lol and in case you were wondering Kale got stuck in that pose and no he's not humping me ;p

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Beach Fun

Fan service! Fan service!!! Lol kidding... Do girls really need an excuse to get into bikinis and hang at the beach? No way!!! :D


Here I am with Elle hanging at the beach trying to get a virtual tan lol. It's fun just hanging, being silly and taking hot pictures ;)


Yaye! Team vagina in da house!!! Lol Ash joined us and the day got even hotter!


As you can see Team Vagina does not need blue balls we are fine on our own ;p

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Bonding

Here I am hanging with Ashlynn the fiancee of my friend BeSeeZy at their new home on SL :) The house is a wedding present from Ash to B. Over the past week I've gotten very close to Ash we bonded over shopping!!! So much that she made me her maid of honor!

Until this point Elle has been my only female friend and I truely value the friendship of Ash. She is so sweet and open and I feel very protective of her. However, because I am her maid of honor now I have less time for Elle. And due to Elle's break with B I've had to share my time between both girls.

I love them both and wish they could get along I know Ash would love Elle and Elle would love Ash.

Female friendship is a tricky subject. I've said this before how it's easier being friends with a guy than a girl because well I think we as females are very judgmental about our own sex.

We can't help it and it's sometimes hard to drop our guard and open ourselves up to new friendship.

But time, experience, and curiosity eventually opens us up :)

Elle had a horrible experience on SL we were trying out cars at a big sandbox when all of a sudden Elle was grabbed and pulled to the bottom of the sea. Apparently there's a sea cave under the sandbox and this fairy girl named Jiffy trapped Elle in that cave. I was oblivious to what was going on because to me Elle was still sitting next to me in the car. But Elle was really in that cave with Jiffy. And Jiffy was evil! She turned from a pretty fairy to a horrible tentacle insect monster! That was trying to rape my Elle!

Elle immed me for a tp and I thought she was kidding because she was next to me or at least what the creature replaced her with was next to me. But finally after her pleas came more and more I tpped her to safety.

It was a frightening experience! Elle was so shaken and I was freaking! We learned that SL is not a utopia you can be harmed here by being pulled or pushed. Who knows what that creature would've done to Elle if no one was able to tp her away :(

Anyway we were still shook up when I got an im from Ash asking if I wanted to come over. I related the story of what happened to Ash and she invited me and Elle to come over.

Lol I think curiosity got the better of Elle that or she wanted to get her mind off the Jiffy bitch. But she accepted the invitation and we went to hang with Ash. Even though B was there Elle and Ash were able to bond :)


And this is the result :)

Three hot chicks hanging out opening our hearts and finding out that we aren't that different from each other. And that a guy cannot come between female friendship :)

Oh and most important lesson of all do not trust anyone named Jiffy!!!

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Slumber Party!!!

Elle's 30 day birthday finally came so what did we do to celebrate? Go to Hooter's of course!!! Lol yes there is a Hooter's on SL ;p Now why are we playing on the up and down contraption instead of seeing hot Hooter's chicks?

Because no one was at Hooters when we decided to go :(

But... we did check out all the shops around Hooters and found pajamas!!!! You know what that means!!!!!!


Slumber Party!!!


Okay so after the major pillow fight with feather's flying everywhere! There was nothing left to do...


But the night was young! Too early to turn in and we were in pajamas damn it! We looked adorable! And boredom was not gonna get us down...


So we decided to take over a club and move the slumber party to Oblivion!!!


Oblivion is usually always empty at night no idea why? It got the best single's dance ball ever! Automatically syncing everyone on it!


Such a great night! One of those girls nights that are unforgettable :)

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No I'm Not Dead ;p

Hello everyone :)

Sorry RL and SL life got a little busy lately and I haven't had time to update my adventures. A whole lotta stuff has been happening but I won't give you a preview no no no you must wait in anticipation until I get to them *evil scientist laugh* ha ha ha.

But on a serious note :) just because I can't keep this to myself I must share it with the world! I'm getting married!!!!!!!!!

Yes me the one who said she would never get married got engaged to Kale Panthar on SL :)

Not only that I'm a runway model too :D

And I have an extended SL family!!!!!

So many things to catch up on but I will get there I promise!!!! ;)

Love you all :*

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